I want to know all the answers. It’s maddening really, the quest for knowing trumps the quest into being time and time again.
I seem to have a desire to understand so much to make sure I am either believing things that are correct or seeing where I am wrong and move onto a ground that seems more correct over the place I currently reside.
Say I believe in God (which right now I do not), before even finding a firm footing in theism I would want to believe the New Testament is valid and correct and then jump straight back into Christianity.
I don’t even believe in God, but my desire seems to be to put the cart before the horse and believe in it all once again.
This desire to believe in God feels like a forest fire raging within me, from the spark the brought the challenge in being able to ground things like rationality and morality outside of God.
I think I need to be very clear here. I want to believe in God because these arguments have given me an ’opt-out’ from my agnostic atheism, into the known comfort of Christianity, but this desire seems to come from a deeper desire to relinquish my depression born from what I actually do currently believe.
Here’s the rub: My agnostic atheism isn’t a belief, it’s the place I find myself in as I am searching and questioning everything, not just religion, but also purpose, reason, morality, pleasure and consciousness. This agnostic atheism although not a belief results in naturalism, or materialism, which once again answer so much less than a religious framework can.
The arguments of C. S. Lewis and other theists are fascinating, but the reality has dawned on me over the last few days that they only answer certain questions and in certain ways and don’t seem to get to the heart of my confusion and doubt on the topic of God.
Philosophical arguments are incredible. But philosophy is only a tool and like logic, reason, and metaphor, it can break down and push one into a corner that one simply doesn’t agree with, in their heart of hearts.
So here is what I currently think on a few of the big topics I have been mulling over in recent months on the blog:
Rationality seems based on our evolutionary make-up, I am realising more and more how irrational I really am upon reflection, even in my thinking and desire for confirmation of beliefs depending on how I am feeling. Confusion, circular reasoning, and distraction stop reason in its tracks without me even realising so often.
Morality also seems to be very subjective. I can’t see how it could be objective, as I have explained before, and until those questions are answered in a coherent manner, I can’t help but feel that my mind won’t be shifted from this place easily.
The following video-based conversations between Cosmic Skeptic & Rationality Rules helped me understand these things more as well. Watch them in this order:
Freewill seems to be an illusion. This doesn’t mean that the whole world breaks down, but really it means that we have an illusion that we think we make conscious decisions in each moment.
The above is what I currently think, but I don’t know if I am right.
People push back on these thoughts to varying degrees. Which is fine. People don’t like to be told that the love they feel for their spouse isn’t ‘their’ love at all, they have no control over the love they feel. I don’t think this should diminish the love they feel, rather I think it should fill them with awe, which once again they have no control over.
People also express horror at the thought that rapists, paedophiles and murders aren’t actually ‘guilty’ of the crimes they have committed, as they had no control over all the factors that led them into the place, they needed to be in to perform the crime.
I would simply say that all of these individuals acted on untrue assumptions of happiness and wellbeing. Much like the guards at Auschwitz, these people were acting on incorrect information, which if corrected then they couldn’t help but not rape, molest, murder individuals or guard Auschwitz.
The reality seems to be that if you manage to have a conversation between the victim and the perpetrator, at some level (however far down) they would both agree on wellbeing, and from this place, you can rebuild one’s belief about right and wrong based on the evolution desire for wellbeing that seems to be within us. This to me seems to be why we think morality is objective when in reality it is subjective, and this explains why people are able to go so far off the rails.
Anyway, these are just my thoughts based on videos (some above), books, podcasts and blog posts. I have a brain that desires to learn. But I also realise now that my brain wants to know the answers to all these questions and move on. I don’t think I will ever be able to do this. I don’t think we will ever know the ‘complete’ answer to things, because there are questions that we, in all likelihood, won’t be able to answer. Though this doesn’t mean we shouldn’t try.
From the world I interact with around me, from the conscious experiences I have and the reality that these experiences derive, God doesn’t seem to be in the picture. But this doesn’t mean I can’t ponder the answers I think He could give, and see what my beliefs allow me to hold as I explore and investigate the incredible world that I seem to be consciously aware of.
My mental health has been fairly bad recently, and this has given me a glimpse into the surprising reality that because I don’t fit into my parents or friends perceptions, I am lesser than I could be, at least this is what it seems like to me. As I go out and read, search and ponder I have become more and more sceptical of so much that others from a Christian worldview believe.
My thoughts grant me the ability to work things through with what seems such clarity one moment, just to become confusion, mist and doubt in the next. My mind seems so fragile, so human, so natural that I can’t see how I must depend upon it to be convinced of specific doctrines to be able to live in a relationship with a God.
Meditation and the exploration of consciousness is beginning to allow me to ‘be’ once again. Like I could when I was younger like I see in my children as they explore, fight, laugh and love each day. The freedom to be without judgement, condemnation, and hell.
To answer it all, I don’t think I know very much, and the pursuit of knowledge is a good pursuit to push on with, but if it requires one to give up the ability to be and sit with the world one experiences in each moment, well then, the pursuit of knowledge has diminished the joy that right now could also bring.
It’s interesting really, the desire to ‘know’ is pointless within an agnostic atheist framework, yet it drives me on from my very core.
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